To my Warrior Princess

I've seen letters like this floating around the blogosphere and in articles. Last week I wrote about why I don't have baby fever, which of course led me to think about when I do have a baby. Also, one of my Ohio besties is having a baby girl any day now! [Not to mention, I found out another childhood bestie is expecting!!!] 

My dearest Warrior Princess,
I want you to remember these words when you're going through those tough times. I want you to remember these words when some other little girl is giving you a "stink face" because she doesn't understand your actions, clothing choices, or you, at all. I want you to remember these words when boys are pulling your hair and making fun of you for absolutely anything.
You are enough. You are beautiful. You are strong. You are brave. You are a warrior queen. 
They probably won't get it and I know that you will feel that hurt, because I always felt that hurt. I've been made fun of for the way I dress, the way I act, the way that I've always had to wear glasses. Someone will always find something, just smile and tell them they don't have the right to make fun of you.
 We're empathetic people, your father, and I. Everyone wants to be liked, and you will be no different. But those people will never truly like you because they don't like themselves.
Their minds can be opened, just like we were raised. Their jealousy can fade, but they must first figure themselves out.
We know who we are. We know what we like, and we should never be mean to someone else because they think differently. Always share what you have, because you will meet someone who has less.
Don't listen to the words on the television from the celebrities who haven't figured themselves out yet. Don't worry, I'll point out the celebrity role models. The women you should look up to. But of course, each one will come with her own set of insecurities. We won't put anyone on a pedestal, because we all make mistakes, myself included.
You will make mistakes, but you can always come to me about them. I will listen, and I won't judge. We'll work toward a solution and work out your emotions. I know you won't always believe me, like me, talk to me, but I hope our relationship can be like the one I had.
I love you. No matter what.
Mom

I'd love to get this printed on something, maybe tweak it a little bit for when I do get pregnant and if I have a little girl.

What letter would you write to your daughter? How will you treat the young women in your life so they become strong warrior queens? 

P.s. It's National Suicide Prevention Week, what are you doing to raise awareness?

Introductions

Hi. I'm Raewyn. I suppose that is the best way to start this blog out - I am excited for it because I am hoping this is the portal to my magazine that I someday hope to start.

As of late, I have been feeling as if I am stuck in a rut. I know that I am not - that things are just normalizing in my life for once but I have always been one to become restless. In an attempt to get out of this rut, I have finally decided to start my blog - after sitting on this name for almost 4 months. I have been nervous about writing my first post, but I realized now is a good as time as any. There is no time like the present - dreams cannot be pushed aside for the everyday mundane things.

Today, my horoscope told me that change is in the air. Like always, I want to be the change I want to see in the world. Instantly, my attitude changed. I have always found this to be the first step in fixing things and being happy with oneself - that determination and attitude change. It's so easy to pick out our flaws and do everything in our power to hide them. However, I truly believe trying to hide them just brings more attention to them and they become more pronounced. Embracing the flaws allows other people to embrace them as well.

I guess I should probably post up my definition of a warrior queen - or the "Warrior Queen Creed" as it is sometimes called. This is my mission statement - the belief that I think every person should live their life by - because only in embracing yourself, are you able to help others. In loving yourself, you can truly love another. Without that, there is nothing but events, words, things...just STUFF. Nothing that I could ever feel is worth it. Of course, this is just how I, and a few of my friends feel.

warrior queen:
be the best of you, in all situations. Be strong and don't let people walk all over you, but be strong enough to let your guard down to those that matter. Embrace heartbreak, it will teach you something about yourself. Don't restrict yourself from doing something that YOU want to do. Listen to what others have to say, but make your own decisions. Never regret anything, because you are doing what you want to do. Don't be ashamed to show your emotion or deal with your problems. don't be afraid to fall in love, even multiple times. Do what's best for you, but do it gracefully and never ever intentionally hurt someone. If they don't belong in your life, gracefully show them the door. Change is necessary, don't drag your feet - greet the day. Do everything with poise and grace. and never ever let anyone make you feel inferior or bad at something. You are the best of you, if they don't like it tough luck. Being a warrior queen is subjective, specific to your situation.

Life is a series of choices - and nothing is ever black and white. Embrace the shades of grey. =]