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Showing posts with label survey. Show all posts
Showing posts with label survey. Show all posts

Thursday, December 19, 2013

Wednesday Night Epiphanies

Last night, as I had yet another night of insomnia I decided that I might need to get this checked out. I don't think it's normal to sleep as little as I do. I might be about to get super serious on you, but I know that somehow my anxiety disorder is involved and somehow I need to figure this ish out before I drive everyone around me insane.

I think that I am on the correct path. I think that I lost myself for a little bit. I'm not too sure how, but I think I'm still doing some adjusting and need to do some looking at myself. In this, my blog posts might change. Originally, this blog was very full of serious posts. Then things became lighter as I had less seriousness in my life - less worries to figure out. I think during that time I forgot to keep doing some self- evaluations and figure out ways I can treat myself better or be a better version of me.

It may sound silly, but I think that I actually got more self-absorbed by not thinking about myself - well, my true self. I don't like being self-absorbed, although I definitely think that a degree of selfishness is necessary in every person.



I have a lot of things planned for 2014 - a lot of fun blog things. Some serious, some not so serious. Hopefully they all continue my growth as a blogger and as a human being. I'm curious to know what you, my readers, want to see more of. Please fill out the form below to let me know!!

On that same note, I want to also divulge that, while I blog pretty regularly now, I may blog more sporadically in the new year. It is getting closer to my wedding and I might get burned out. I'm not sure, I've never planned anything so big as my life with another person. I am excited. I am scared. I am happy.

But I'm also not happy. I'm not sure if this is common or if I am the only weird one out there but at night, I get incredibly sad sometimes. Maybe I'm letting the stressors from the day finally hit me; maybe I'm not focusing on the feelings I need to focus on; maybe I just need more sleep but this is definitely something I need to fix.

So if you ask how I am and I tell you I'm happy, I am. I am incredibly happy and thankful for my life. I'm just trying to figure my head out.

While trying to get my brain to shut off last night I read a lot of my really old posts - I'm taking 2009 and 2010. I feel like I was going through a pretty big life transition back then.  Here are some examples:

Passing Judgement
Rumor Has It
Girl Cruelty and Jealousy
Big Changes, Big Problems
Be Love

Please let me know what you think about these posts and what direction my blog is heading in :)




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Tuesday, December 17, 2013

Ten Days of Christmas Tag

Brittney at True Vintage Love tagged me in this Christmas survey! I love Christmas and I love survey's so it's basically perfection! 


1. What do you love the most about Christmas time?
I love that I get to spend time with all of my family all together!! :) It seems like it is the one time a year we all get a chance to get together again.

The women on my mom's side :) 
 I just realized I take a picture with my cousin/namesake every year. I can't ever catch all of the little girls, but I can always get one with her! :)

2008

2009

2010

I can't find any of my pictures from 2011 :( 

2012 - the year Iman asked her to be our flower girl! 


2. Do you celebrate the holiday in style or is Bah-Humbug for you?

I like to think I take a medium fly-by-the-seat-of-your-pants approach. I feel like the holidays always sneak up on me! I always WANT to be in style and have decorations but things always end up semi-decorated

3. Are you leaving anything out for Santa Claus this year so he remembers to leave your presents?

I don't think so :) We don't have any little kids in the house so there's no Santa Claus magic at our house - we don't even have a chimney! But, I love seeing and helping out with all of the littles in my family. One of my cousins is always sure to kick us out by midnight because SANTA IS COMING. 
4. What is the one gift you are most looking forward to GIVING? {It can be to your kids, another family member, etc – remember to be discreet if they read your blog.}
I am super looking forward to giving my momma her gift this year. She doesn't think she's getting anything really, and it's nothing big. It's just special. My mom takes such great care of us and goes above and beyond than what she needs to, I can't wait to be able to pamper her instead. 
5. What is your all-time favorite Christmas movie? 
Love Actually! You can see my post about that here. 
6. What is your all-time favorite Christmas song?
Christmas Wrapping by The Waitresses is my all time favorite Christmas song! 

One year for Christmas I actually wrote "I think I'll miss this one this year" on wrapping paper pinned to the back of my "Merry Christmas" shirt. Of course, I can't find the photo now, but that was little outrageous 15 year old me :P
Closely behind is Mariah's All I Want For Christmas is You! 
7. If given the opportunity, would you participate in an “Ugly Sweater” party and what sweater would you wear? Peruse one on the Internet or even if your own closet and show us!
I love Ugly Sweater parties!! Here's me at the one I hosted in 2010 :) 

And here's my dream sweater! (Cats galore!)
Via Pinterest

8. Have you started any Christmas traditions this year that you plan on carrying forward?
We think we are, but then it might be a little difficult to do in coming years. We're going to Vegas for Christmas with my dad. We're going the 22-24 and my dad wants to do it every year. Which would be awesome, except when I have very small children in the future. 
9. It’s Christmas morning… what does it look like outside where you live?
Either sun is shining OR it's raining. We always hope for the rain!! 
10. You just found yourself standing under the mistletoe… who comes up to give you a kiss first?
My one true love! 

I tag: Paulina, Cassi, Noor, Areeba and Amanda!

Can't wait to see your answers!!!
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Thursday, December 12, 2013

Wednesday, October 30, 2013

Post Exchange and a Liebster Award



Hello new bloggy friends!

I do hope you come and stay for awhile. This blog is all about being positive, finding the good in ourselves and making changes in the world around us. In short, we're moving in our own way!

There's been a lot of growth in my blog recently and I cannot even express how grateful I am for all of this. I started my blog as a means to following my dream of starting a magazine for teen / college age girls about being themselves and finding the good in life [and escaping some of those stigmas that other magazines give. I don't want to read just about fashion and makeup but about other stuff TOO. Enter Warrior Queen - the someday magazine that will give you the other stuff to read right after you read Seventeen...or before, I'm not picky].

I happened to be nominated for another Liebster award this past week. Thank you Stefanie @ The Husak Household. She's truly amazing. We met through a Carabox exchange and I just adore her.

Since I did a Sunshine Award last week, I will not be nominating anyone, but the questions are perfect for you to get to know me a little better.

Did I mention I also partook in Just Jacq's Post Exchange for October? It was fantastic!! I got matched with Elizabeth from Army Ever After. This lucky girl lives in Hawaii with her army husband and I truly hope I get to visit and go hiking with them someday - she even told me it's okay if I complain the whole hike.

The Post Exchange is an easy exchange each month. You can sign up for November here. You spend a month getting to know a partner and at the end of the month you send each other an encouraging card. No need to buy a gift, although you can if you'd like.

Now, for my favorite thing - a survey!



This award is given to new or up and coming bloggers who have less than 200 followers...the award is then passed along to other bloggers in the same category to help spread the word and support one another. Here's what you have to do:

1. Each blogger should post 11 random facts about themselves.

2. Answer the questions the tagger has set for you, then create 11 new questions for the bloggers you pass the award to.

3. Choose 11 new bloggers (with less than 200 followers) to pass the award to and link them in your post.

4. Go back to their page and tell them about the award.

5. No tag backs.



11 Random Facts About Me:

1. I give everything I can to everyone I can, but I still think I should be giving more.

2. I have a horrible inability to keep things clean.

3. My brain runs at a speed of 100mph. The things I say sometimes don’t make sense.

4. Every day I try to challenge myself to do something new or to be a better person.

5. I have 4 cats and a dog, but really only 1 cat is mine.

6. Besides one boy cat as a child, every cat that has been MINE has been black. I heart black cats.

7. I have a very long commute to and from work every day, but I truly love my new job.

8. I don’t know what it means to not be busy.

9. I am learning to enjoy the slow things, a little bit more.

10. I used to go to Nascar races ALL THE TIME.

11. I love song lyrics because they simplify my thoughts in a way that make them easy for others to understand.

The Questions

1. If you had to choose a last supper, what would you choose?

A meal made my by family. COMPLETE. It would have my grandmother’s chili, my other grandmother’s potato salad, some jerky from Papa Frank, potato candy from Papa Buddy, my mom would make me my favorite cake (neopolitan) and my dad would cook carne asada – not tritip. Aunty Nik would give make me carnitas and tamales, because it’s a last meal and you have to stuff your face for that.


2. If you could go back to any era, which era would you go back to and what fashion trend would you rock?

I would love to go back into the 50s, but I would probably be very mad at everyone for trying to boss me around and not let me have too many rights. I would, however, rock the style.


3. What is your ultimate goal for your blog?

To start a magazine!!! I want to grow my readership and support for the magazine so that I won’t fail when I start it. Really! It’s about changing the lives of some impressionable girls and women.


4. How would you describe the perfect home?

Oh! This is easy!! One with love. It probably wouldn’t be clean all the time and the kitchen and living room would truly be lived in. Everyone would be gathered around each other simply being with each other. There would probably be an amazing backyard to host get togethers because 4 walls cannot hold the love that would be in that home. The bedrooms would be doubled up – some even tripled. If you needed a place to stay, that would be the place and those without a home would call it home.


5. If you got $1 million dollars and had to give it all away, how would you share it?
I would give some to my favorite charities and then I would spend the rest on children in “the system”.


6. If you could meet one celebrity, who would you meet and why?

I don’t know. I think I would like to meet Gwen Stefani. I have always wanted to and I really think she could give me some WQ motivation.

7. If you could have any profession (real or made-up) what would you choose to do with your life?

I would be a world changer. I would be out in the trenches working everyday to change the world. I don’t have the tenacity for it…and I suck at being too far from home for longer than a week.


8. Would you rather have someone clean your house every day or do your hair and make-up and dress you every day?

Clean my house!! I am totally in love with the way I look. Hey! I’ve finally mastered eyeshadow and makeup. My style is getting better, but as long as I’m comfy, I don’t mind THAT much. Cleaning though…man…let me tell you. I will splurge on a housecleaner.


9. If you lived the life of a TV character, who would you be?

Jess from New Girl. Easy peasy.


10. What piece of technology can you not live without?

My cellphone. Well…technically any since that is what I do…TEACH technology.


11. Do you know where your ancestors came from (your heritage) and does your family celebrate anything special from their culture?

My dad’s family is from Sonora, Mexico and Europe [we have the geneology]. My mother’s family came to the United States aboard the Mayflower. We don’t celebrate any particular days, but we have many Mexican traditions.

Side note: Here are some of my favorite posts: 

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Tuesday, October 22, 2013

Sunshine Award

Ok guys, I'm such a hot mess. I try not to be but let me just tell you about my morning really quick. Like SUPER quick. I got all ready for my second day of school and then apparently posted this half finished blog. Then, I had to use the restroom while I was driving, stopped at a gas station and locked my keys in the car. That's a story for another day...

Everything got more fantastic from there. My boss is amazing, I got my teaching schedule, decorated my class a bit and Paulina SURPRISED me with a blog makeover? Do you guys love it? Anything we should add?

Yesterday I asked her to help me fix Rafflecopter html and gave her my password and I come home today to this. GAH! She is such a great blog friend. Must take a trip to NJ.

Baaaack to the second originally scheduled post...

Today I was planning on writing about how much I love Fresh and Easy, but then I got nominated for a Sunshine Award from Christina @ Polka Dot Heart! Thank you so much for the nomination!!


The whole idea of the sunshine award is that you nominate 11 bloggers who put a little sunshine in your day, who are positive, creative and inspiring.


The Rules:
You have to post a picture of the Sunshine award in the blog post.
Post 11 random facts about yourself.
Answer the 11 questions from the blogger who nominated you.
Nominate 11 wonderful bloggers.
Write 11 questions for them to answer.
Also let the bloggers you nominated know you have nominated them.

11 Random Facts About Me

  • This is my 17th job, and I finally think this one is going to be a career. 
  • I got a B.A. in Journalism so that I could start a magazine, but I hate interviewing. 
  • My fiance and I have known each other for just under 10 years, but we started dating 2 years ago.
  • I have gone to 5 different colleges, but graduated only one year late despite university changes.
  • I refuse to  be a crazy cat lady, so I have a rule of "one cat per person" in a household.
  • I am an insomniac who is adjusting rather well to waking up at 5 am...we are only 2 days in though
  • I meet a lot of the greatest friends online and my friends I meet in real life think it's strange. I think it's liberating.
  • I'm not from OC, but we moved to OC as a teenager, but I try to escape the stigma.
  • I just learned how to do my eye shadow within the last year. I don't wear makeup very often.
  • Hearts are my absolute favorite and I want a bunch of heart tattoos. 
  • Even when I was a kid, if someone told me something and used sexist terms or said "I'm a boy so I can do that" I would get extremely angry and feel challenged to do just that and put them right. I still feel this way on a daily basis. 


11 Questions I Was Asked

What made you start blogging?
I've been writing in a blog since I was 14, because all of my friends had one and I was going away on a 3 week family trip. 

Where do you see yourself in 5 years?
I hope to be doing great in my new position as computer teacher, working more on making Warrior Queen a physical magazine and maybe with a kid or two! AH!

What are your top 3 favorite colors?
Hot pink, Fire-engine red and grey

What is your favorite place you've traveled to?
I really loved the city of Whistler in Canada. I would love to go back. 

What is your favorite season?
Springtime! I love when it is sort of cold, but warm. Springtime in Cali brings my allergies but not the dreaded Santa Ana winds like fall does. 

What is your favorite type of blog to read (lifestyle, fashion, mommy, etc)?
I love lifestyle blogs!! I'm a sucker for them. But also, more personal lifestyle blogs where people bare their souls. I try to do that as often as I can, but it's hard. Smitten By is a wonderful site. 

If you could be any animal, what would you be?
I don't think I want to be an animal :( I would love to care for a wild animal, but I like my life as a human.

Do you believe you match your zodiac sign?
Very much so! I'm a Gemini and whenever I or someone reads it we always go Oh! That's so True!

What is your biggest fear?
Being left completely alone in life. Somehow not having anyone to love or to feel love from.

What are some of your favorite hobbies?
Dirtbiking, writing, going to concerts (I consider this a hobby for sure!) and definitely baking.

What is something you've accomplished that you were proud of?
I would have to say that I am proud of trusting myself and the power of change. This might sound a bit funny, but let me do a quick run down for you. Iman and I had a great friendship, but I always liked him and he always disappeared. By the time I was 21 I had completely closed myself off from a future with him. Of course I was surprised a year later when we went on our first date. I was terrified, especially because I am a runner. But I trusted him, and I listened to his amazing life story of change since high school. At his core he was still the boy I had always been in love with, but on top was a completely new person that I still get to know. When things get rough, we always have our trust and our belief in our love. For that bravery, I am most proud.

I nominate...
Paulina @ Color Me Brave
Megalin @ My Random Lovelies
Cassandra @ 2 Teenage Girls
Lesley @ By The Porchlight
Christine @ Life With a Side of Coffee
Elizabeth @ Army Ever After
Zauni @ The Kind Side
Melissa @ Dreams and Colour
Danielle @ A Writer in Love
Lauren @ Love is the Point
Sabrina @ Cattails and Cardigans


My 11 Questions
What is your favorite way to give back to the world?
Have you ever done a random act of kindness? What did you do?
What is the one positive thing you do every day?
How do you make your day more positive when it just sucks?
Where do you find serenity?
What are your plans for Halloween?
What are your favorite type of cupcake?
What is your most treasured memory?
When were you the most brave?
What makes you a warrior queen?
What does love mean to you?



Have fun and I hope you all participate. :)

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P.s. Shoutout to Danielle and Cassandra for letting me know I published an unfinished blog post. How embarrassing considering I have many new followers because of all three of my giveaways right now here, here and here. Welcome to my hot mess of a life guys!


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Tuesday, July 9, 2013

ABC's of Little Ol' Me

I'm working on my About Me page. I have a page dedicated to the history of the warrior queen movement, but there isn't one about me...and...well, if you knew me back in the MySpace days...I was am obsessed with about me's. Changed mine on the reg. Soooo this ABC's taken from my blog bff Megalin has to happen. NOW. :)
This picture just so perfectly sums me up :)



A is for AGE:  24, oh my lanta.
B is for BED size:  Queen, but our Cal King is in storage...I always thought they were way way too big before I shared my bed with a giant.
C is for CHORE you hate:  All? Ok. I REFUSE to clean the toilet. 
D is for DOGS:  I want a rott someday. aand a shitzu named Little Shih t. Iman likes pugs though.
E is for ESSENTIAL start to your day:  kisssessss
F is for FAVORITE color:  Red!
G is for GOLD or silver:  White gold and silver...although I am kind of getting into yellow gold...
H is for HEIGHT: five feet one like the Iggy Pop song
I is for INSTRUMENTS you play:  Ocarena for dayssss
J is for JOB title:  Office Manager, Server, Computer Lab Instructor......... #workaholic
K is for KIDS:  Not yet!
L is for  where you LIVE:  So Cal Living. Don't make me move. ever.
M is for MARRIAGE:  9 months away!!! Crucial no baby time. 
N is for NICKNAMES:  Rae, Rae Rae, Crazy, Boo Boo, Winkie, Runty, Rowenna, Spunker, Rae [to the] Wyn << yes, my family actually calls me that...i get a lot of nicknames.
O is for OVERNIGHT hospital stays:  OHH just the first couple of weeks of my life, nbd
P is for PET PEEVE:  People who drive with their headlights off at night. I will follow you and yell at you and flash my brights until you understand!
Q is for QUOTES:  You can't change the world, but you can make a dent! - Death to Smoochy
R is for RIGHTY or lefty:  Righty.
S is for SIBLINGS: 1 big little bother, 2 almost brother in laws,  aand  for the "siblings" an almost adopted older bro/sister in law, 1 adopted mini me, 1 adopted little brother and countless best friend siblings!
T is for TIME you wake up: I shoot for 6 am, and wake up at 7:15 flying by the seat of my pants to make it to work 
U is for UNIVERSITY you attended:  THE Ohio State University and California State University Northridge...grad school miiight be in my future, too!
V is for VEGETABLES you dislike:  mushrooms and tomatoes. blahh
W is for WHAT makes you run late:  my DNA
X is for XRAYS you've had:  back, foot, teeth, and back again tomorrow
Y is for YUMMY food:  foreign fooooood, Papa Perry's cooking!
Z is for ZOO animal:  I LOVE THE ZOO. I once made a dance out of all of the zoo animals at Cbus Zoo

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